How to work with me
I’m excited you’ve made it here. Thank you for taking this step to help yourself grow and get more of what you’re wanting from life.
Here are the sorts of people I have the most experience supporting:
- Future-oriented, multi-passionate big-thinkers. While I work with all types, I specialize in coaching fellow NTPs as well as INTJs, INFJs, and ENFPs. (Not sure of your type? Take my test);
- Entrepreneurs, freelancers, founders, career-changers, oppression-dismantlers, system-disrupters, institution-remakers, self-reinventors—or people wanting to move in those directions;
- People driven to help (i.e., you want coaching not just to improve your own life, but to better equip you to help others or change the world);
- People right on the cusp (i.e., you want to take action, but you have some beliefs, barriers, or patterns holding you back).
If that's not you, no judgment. But based on my skillset and life experiences, I might not be the ideal coach for you.
If you want help improving your sales funnel, maximizing your profit margins, or reaching the C-suite as soon as possible, there are other business coaches out there who will likely serve you better.
But if you want to define and live your purpose, deepen your relationships (and make new ones), figure out the meaning of life, make big progress toward your goals (not your boss'), and simply feel more alive, I might be just right for you.
FAQ
How can I work with you?
Thanks for your interest in coaching with me. Below you'll find information on several types of offerings: one-on-one coaching, group coaching & workshops, and my blog.
Want to get a sense of what I sound like to talk with? Here are a few of my YouTube videos I like: (a) purposefully discarding thoughts, (b) processing big emotions, and (c) cultivating fragile feelings,
One-on-One Coaching
I've put a lot of thought into the most logical, fair, and ethical way to price my services.
Conversations about money tend to bring out a lot of feelings (on both sides), and I want to approach that complexity with the nuance and care it deserves.
So, this will require just a little more work to understand than "pay me $X."
If you're curious, I wrote a whole philosophical article where I break down in detail how I arrived at this set of policies. (All this has evolved a bit too since I wrote that post back in early 2021.)
My pricing philosophy & policies
I intentionally aim to serve a variety of people in my practice—including groups who have historically had less access to coaching due to systemic oppression (e.g., 43% of my clients are people of color, and I work with quite a few people who identify as LGBTQIA+ and people across the neurodiversity spectrum).
So, providing access is important to me. And, at the same time, this is my primary source of income, and I need to be able to run a sustainable business.
Here's the model I've arrived at:
Sliding-scale (variable pricing):
I offer the same service at multiple price points based on need (honor system, no proof required). But paying the highest price you can afford allows me to offer much lower-priced coaching to people who couldn't otherwise afford it.
First session is free:
Let's make sure we're the right fit for each other. So much of coaching comes down to trust, chemistry, and connection. Each coach has a different style, so I want to make sure you feel comfortable with mine.
You're in charge—no commitment, stop any time:
Many other coaches require clients to sign up for big expensive packages (with subtle or overt pressure on you). I take a different approach: Pay for sessions one at a time, work with me for as long as it feels valuable, and feel free to pause or stop our work together whenever it feels right for you.
Commit to at least two sessions per month:
Roughly half my clients see me weekly, and half every other week. I sometimes make exceptions to see people less frequently, but that slows our progress and makes it harder for me to stay up-to-date with your life (i.e., we spend more time on life updates instead of transformation).
Most importantly, let’s be real with each other:
I’m not a big faceless corporation charging one fixed price for a product, and you’re a complex human with various types of expenses in your life. Let’s have a real authentic conversation about what you can afford that’s fair to both of us. It's not you vs. me, but us figuring this out together as a team.
My Sliding Scale
Please do your own research if you'd like a comparison for coaching rates.
But I can tell you that $200-500 USD per session is a common price charged by my peers with similar experience and credentials.
Below are my rates for a 50-minute session (again, this is the same service being offered at each price tier).
Here's what else you'll get by working with me:
- I'll start off by sending you a detailed questionnaire to help us get to know each other—and, more importantly, to help you get crystal clear on your goals for coaching.
- I'll customize my coaching style based on your personality type (I'm very familiar with several powerful typing systems).
- This isn't one-size-fits-all advice. We'll co-create a unique personal growth trajectory just for you. I'll bring in techniques from Co-Active coaching, Hakomi counseling, and much more—whatever is most appropriate for your specific challenges.
- You'll be the first to hear about my new projects, tools, Mastermind groups, and other offerings.
- You'll also get access to me via email between sessions (for example, if you'd like me to review your resume or answer a time-sensitive question). And, as we work together, I might share worksheets, articles, or podcasts that make me think of you.
Which one best describes your situation?
Standard Rate A
- You earn over $170K USD/year (or, you have substantial savings / passive income)
- Or, you can buy most things without needing to save up
- Or, your company will be paying for this
- Bonus: By paying this rate, you allow me to offer lower-priced coaching to someone with a marginalized identity (thank you!)
$267 USD
Standard Rate B
- You earn over $120K USD/year (before tax, including bonuses)
- Or, you regularly spend $200+ USD on non-necessities without needing to save up
$197 USD
Special Rate
- You earn under $50K USD/year (before tax, including bonuses) and have very little disposable income (after paying for basic necessities)
- And, you identify as part of a historically marginalized group such as LGBTQIA+ or BIPOC (or you face other systemic discrimination)
$87 USD
(waitlist only)
(I'm a fan of crypto, so I'm open to receiving payment in ETH or BTC as well. Credit card is easier for me to process, but if your money is tied up in crypto, I'm open to talking about how to receive payment that way.)
Group Coaching, Masterminds, Workshops,
I don't currently have any group coaching programs runnning. But please sign up below to be the first to hear about my new programs, writing, and free tools & frameworks.
You can also follow me on my new YouTube channel, which is where I've been putting more of my energy lately.
If paid coaching doesn't fit into your current financial situation, you can check out my free tools and blog posts.