Are you a future-oriented, multi-passionate big-thinker?

Me too—you've come to the right place.

As a Transformation Coach & Existential Counselor, I work with all personality types, but I specialize in fellow ENTPs, INTPs, INTJs, INFJs, and ENFPs.

My mission is to help people unlock their potential as Full-Stack Humans, and all of the tools on this page were created with people like you in mind.

Below, you'll find my premium (paid) courses and tools. And further down, I'll share my free videos and blog posts.

Premium Courses & Tools for Growth-Oriented 'N' Types

Full-Stack Decision-Making (Part 1 of 2)

Learn how to overcome “analysis paralysis.” Make decisions with confident ease instead of overwhelm and regret.

We'll cover decisions big and small—from which project to prioritize, to whether you should finally make that big move.

$137 USD

Full-Stack Decision-Making (Part 2 of 2)

We'll go deeper into the underlying reasons you struggle with decision-making; how to deal with nihilism, depression, and anxiety that come up here; and the big secret to make it all less frustrating.

You'll get my 15-step framework for big decisions, and decision-making guides for specific decision scenarios that N's struggle with.

$137 USD

Unlocking Your Potential: The Ultimate Guide for ’N’ Types to Discover Your Dream Career and Deepest Life Purpose

Ready to stop dreading every Monday? Discover a life path that will make you excited to get out of bed every morning (even if you can't choose which of your many passions to focus on).

This isn't just about finding the ideal job (though we'll cover that too), but about how to find and live your personal meaning of life.

$97 USD

Blog: Synthesizing & Simplifying Complexity

I write about:

Practical Psychology (e.g., managing motivation & energy, expertly prioritizing your todo list, more easefully making decisions)
Existential Questioning / Rational Spirituality (e.g., designing life purpose, practicing mindfulness, Zen Buddhism)
Powerful Typology (e.g., making the best use of your type's strengths, overcoming your type's weaknesses)
Deep Personal Growth (e.g., building emotional intelligence, making friends as an adult, deepening your relationships).

I write about:

Practical Psychology (e.g., managing motivation & energy, expertly prioritizing your todo list, more easefully making decisions)
Existential Questioning / Rational Spirituality (e.g., designing life purpose, practicing mindfulness, Zen Buddhism)
Powerful Typology (e.g., making the best use of your type's strengths, overcoming your type's weaknesses)
Deep Personal Growth (e.g., building emotional intelligence, making friends as an adult, deepening your relationships).

I write about...

Practical Psychology (e.g., managing motivation & energy, expertly prioritizing your todo list, more easefully making decisions)
Existential Questioning / Rational Spirituality (e.g., designing life purpose, practicing mindfulness, Zen Buddhism)
Powerful Typology (e.g., making the best use of your type's strengths, overcoming your type's weaknesses)
Deep Personal Growth (e.g., building emotional intelligence, making friends as an adult, deepening your relationships).

Videos

I recently started a YouTube channel as well—about developing deep self-awareness, purpose, and personal growth skills.

All this through the lens of an ENTP who's done a lot of work on developing emotional intelligence and mindfulness in myself (and directly helped hundreds of N-type people do the same).

My goal is to teach personal growth at the root human level, in a way that's highly effective but also realistic (i.e., not over-promising) and gentle (i.e., focused on actual life fulfillment rather than pure productivity).

I'll sometimes reference the 16 Jung-Myers types (and cognitive functions), but that won't be the main focus—less "here's everything you need to know about xNTP's," and more "as an xNTP, you'll probably appreciate it if I explain life purpose or motivation in this way..."

Here are two videos you might like to start with. If they resonate, please consider subscribing 🙂

Personality Typing

I often weave personality typing into a variety of my blog posts, but this section is for posts specifically about typology.

Last updated in 2023

Cognitive Function Personality Test

Want to better understand who you are? My test goes deeper, beyond the usual "do you prefer staying home or going to a party?" This test delves into the cognitive functions created by Carl Jung and the fuller complexity of the 16 types you've heard of (yes, it's possible to be both introverted and extroverted depending on the situation!).

January 31, 2021

ENTP or INTP? How to tell the difference

Since ENTP’s are one of the most introverted of the extrovert types, it’s common for NTP’s to be confused about whether they’re an I or an E. It doesn’t help that the Internet is full of stereotypes and exaggerated memes about both of these types too. In my new blog post I break down the most prominent differences I’ve personally seen between those two types after having coached dozens of NTP’s.

April 27, 2024

INFJ or INFP? How to tell the difference

Often, my coaching clients know they’re definitely an INFx but they have trouble deciding between INFJ and INFP. (Honestly, I sometimes find it quite difficult myself too when typing people.) These two types can look similar on the outside, but their internal worlds and motivations can be quite different.

April 15, 2023

My 7-day guided meditation series—for complete beginners (and beyond)

If you're looking for a guided meditation, where should you begin? There are way too many choices! That’s exactly why I recorded this simple series to walk you through the very basics—techniques that apply to many of the common styles of meditation. We’ll start with just 1 minute a day, and you don’t need any equipment.

Mindfulness & Meditation

I was a proud skeptic. I thought I was already self-aware so meditation would be a waste of my time. I was very, very wrong. I tried and failed at various meditation techniques for years, but it's now become my most important habit that I prioritize every day.

Especially if you're an analytical thinker, I believe this is the single most important skill for you to learn to succeed at life. I'll walk you through meditation step by step in a rational, non-woo-woo way, and I'll offer you the most important tips I've learned over a decade of practicing.

Where to start?

If you're ready to jump in, I suggest starting with my 7-day guided meditation series. Or, if you're unconvinced that meditation is worth your time (or you think that meditation isn't for you, you're just not a meditator, or meditation doesn't work), I suggest starting with my deep-dive series on meditation.

June 12, 2022

#1 in series

Why this is the #1 skill you should learn as a Thinker type to make the most of your life (it’s like getting root-level access to your operating system)

Introduction to my multi-part series on mindfulness & meditation, including the 5 most common objections I've heard and my 4 top reasons I believe you should prioritize meditation.

June 14, 2022

#2 in series

9 steps to get the most out of meditation (whether you’re an absolute beginner or you’ve struggled to make it work for you)

Walking you through meditation from the very basics through to some more advanced techniques. This covers environment, posture, tools, techniques for staying focused, and more.

June 15, 2022

#3 in series

Different styles, traditions, teachers, apps, and more; plus, a 12-week learning schedule you can use, and my series takeaways

Exploring several of my favorite meditation traditions, teachers, and specific guided meditations. I also recommend my 3 favorite meditation apps, and I offer a 12-week sample learning schedule as well as a list of 13 takeaways from this series.

Purpose, Spirituality, Buddhism

I'm passionate about existential philosophy, exploring the meaning of life, and investigating spirituality through the lens of rationality and lived experience rather than faith.

(In particular, I've fallen in love with Sōtō Zen Buddhism, and I'm familiar with the Theravadan Vipassana lineage through Goenka as well.)

I've written about these topics quite a bit on a variety of platforms.

Here are some of my favorite pieces of writing to start with:

Social Justice

Hey, I see you!

You might have just read that headline ("social justice") and felt uncomfortable. What's in here might not apply to you, right? Or maybe it'll be impractical or unrealistically idealistic.

Worst of all, especially if you're a straight white guy, you might imagine that anything in this section will be designed to make you feel bad about yourself.

As a fellow (mostly) straight white guy, let me assure you: I'm still learning too, and I know that we all make mistakes. This collection is meant to be gentle & educational. I won't be "canceling" you.

Finally, I firmly believe that being a good ally to people with marginalized identities (e.g., people of color or people who identify as LGBTQIA+) is not just for their benefit (although that's certainly important too). It actually benefits all of us. This work is about our collective freedom and liberation.

August 22, 2022 (updated in September 2024)

Hey, fellow straight guys—here’s how to use pronouns to be a better ally (and boost your own freedom & self-knowledge at the same time)

How you're already using pronouns, and why they're useful
Downsides of “he” and “she”
Upsides of “she”
Upsides of “he”
How learning about pronouns has informed my own journey around gender identity
How expanding our conception of gender actually liberates all of us—even heterosexual cisgendered guys like me

Last updated in 2021

Intro to Race in the United States for White People

This is a non-political deep-dive introduction to how race works in this country (written by an ENTP): where race came from and how it factors into America today. This is not at all about political correctness, and I'm firmly against shaming people. It's my attempt to explain a complex topic to other white people with clarity and kindness.

Habits & Willpower

One of the most common challenges I hear from people I coach is low motivation and trouble sticking to new habits. Here's everything you need to know to get started with science-backed habit creation.

November 19, 2017

#1/2 in series

How to get unstuck, develop habits, and change your behavior

I explain how habits work and how to change them based on the latest research in behavioral psychology.

October 31, 2020

#2/2 in series

How to add multiple new habits at once—especially for ENTPs and ENFPs

I’d always read that new habits have to be developed one at a time. That didn’t work for me because I can never pick just one. Then I discovered a technique that lets me work on multiple changes in my life at once, and without using up all my willpower.

Top Book Recommendations

April 4, 2023

My top non-fiction book recommendations (for life optimization, emotional intelligence, philosophy, purpose, relationships, and more)

My favorite books across a variety of categories that you probably care about.

Cooking

For most of my 20’s, I was convinced that being a successful adult meant following recipes to cook fancy, exciting meals. I would spend hours searching Reddit and Allrecipes for interesting recipes, sorting by highest-rated, and pushing myself to try new flavor profiles.

Cooking seems hard. But it only seems that way because you’re used to thinking of cooking in terms of following complex recipes. It doesn’t have to be that way at all. Let's make it easy for you to cook easy, healthy, delicious meals in just 15 minutes.

October 23, 2022

No idea how to cook? Hate wasting time & having to clean up? Me too. Here’s a super-easy template for healthy, delicious meals in 15 minutes.

Everything you need to need to begin, including a list of all equipment and a step-by-step guide. Whether you're an absolute beginner or someone who's slogged through recipes for years and is ready for something easier, this is for you.

Personal Growth

This section contains posts on a variety of topics related to personal growth.

December 30, 2021

New Year's Check-In Exercise

Each year, I like to reflect back on the previous year: What did I learn? What might I want to do differently next year? How is my life going? Over the years, I’ve gathered a variety of tools and questions for doing that, and I synthesized it all into a worksheet.

February 12, 2021

How I decided what to charge: what’s logical and ethical when you’re doing what you love?

The single biggest challenge for me since starting my private coaching practice (other than the impostor syndrome) has been deciding what to charge. In this post, I analyze all the arguments I’ve heard and figure out what makes the most ethical and logical sense for pricing my coaching services. I’ll also cover some of the most common psychological biases and pricing tactics I’ve seen used in the industry.

March 12, 2018

How to become a more empathetic communicator

I kept hearing people saying that they were “holding space” for me, but it took me months to understand what that really meant. In this post, I unpack that phrase. I’ll explain how to be truly present in a conversation, and how that will help you become a far more empathetic friend and partner.

October 17, 2017

Free your mind: Change the stories you tell yourself

Ever realize that you’ve been telling yourself a story for years that’s not actually true? These stories are at the heart of how we see ourselves in the world. They set your expectations, and they help you rationalize when things don’t go your way.

Health & Science

I'm not a scientist, but I do a lot of deep-dive research on health and science topics that are important to me. My goal is to simplify complexity.

February 22, 2025

How to avoid microplastics and nanoplastics (the “lead poisoning” of our generation)

Microplastics and nanoplastics are an emerging health concern that might affect a wide range of organs in the body. They're in our water, air, and even clothing. In this post, I explain the best ways I've found to reduce exposure and flush them from the body.

May 11, 2023

My recommended links for understanding the existential risks of Artificial Intelligence

This is a list of my top recommended links to learn more about the potential species-ending risks of artificial intelligence.

This isn’t a standalone post, but something I link to from other AI-related posts (such as my 33-slide carousel-slide post on LinkedIn explaining the existential-level risk of super-intelligent AI) (audio version of that is here on Spotify and Apple Podcasts).

Living with the Pandemic

I'm not a medical professional, but I was frustrated by all the misinformation and confusing advice out there on COVID-19.

So, I did a lot of research (synthesizing hundreds of articles) and created this series of posts with everything you need to know from how to keep a "bubble" or "pod" safe, to which specific masks are best, to the latest information about the virus "variants" and vaccines.

The most recent two posts are linked below, but there are a lot more of them on my page devoted to this series: Living with the Pandemic.

July 16, 2022

Omicron BA.5—the rules have changed (outdoors is less safe, and you can get reinfected often, each time with increased odds of Long COVID)

Now’s one of those times when it might make sense to take a step back and revisit some of your personal COVID policies in light of this new sub-variant. In short: BA.5 spreads a *lot* more easily, even outside. It’s also possible to get it again after only two weeks. And, each time you get it, it has more of an impact on your body.

May 14, 2022

Twitter thread: The latest info on your chances of getting Long COVID right now.

Is it still worth taking COVID precautions? When should you wear a mask? I want you to have the latest facts from the scientific community.

Cryptocurrency

Cryptocurrency is my newest obsession. As a multi-passionate analytical thinker, I love that crypto is so multidisciplinary. Especially if you're an ENTP or INTP as well, I believe this will fascinate you.

The first two posts are linked below, but there are a lot more of them on my page devoted to this series: Easing into Crypto. (P.S. Each post is also available for free as an audio podcast on Spotify or iTunes).

June 15, 2021

#0 in series

Overview of my series, who this is for, why you might consider listening to me, and how easy it is to think you understand crypto when you actually don’t

Why this information might be useful for almost anyone
My background in the tech industry
How easy it is to lose money in crypto, and why you need to be careful
Overview of how this series is organized

April 11, 2021

#1 in series

Why should I care? What’s in it for me? Why is crypto important (it’s about a lot more than just making money!)?

Why crypto is interesting
Feeling like you're too late to the party
10 reasons crypto is useful
Why Bitcoin is important for social justice

Quick Reads

Above were my deeper-dive posts.

But, I've also published a wide range of shorter posts that take just a few minutes to read. They're cross-posted to three different platforms, so you can pick your favorite: